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SKHHP Advisory Board Meeting
December 2, 2021
MINUTES
I. CALL TO ORDER
Angela San Filippo called the virtual meeting to order at 6:00 PM.
II. WELCOME
Welcome from SKHHP Executive Board Chair and Mayor of the City of Auburn, Nancy Backus
III. ADVISORY BOARD MEMBER INTRODUCTIONS
Go around the virtual room and respond to the question w hen have you felt the most sense of
belonging in a home?
Aaron Johnson introduced themselves to the group. Aaron expressed excitement for the opportunity
to learn from different backgrounds and will to serve community. Aaron shared background in Air
Force and peacekeeping operations, with last mission in South Sudan to help support freedom and
independence. Joined King County All Home in response to seeing so many people experiencing
homelessness. Joined Congolese Integration Network and took the lead in housing department.
Trish shared web of connections based on the survey from the last meeting, group will revisit the
connections in a few months to see how things have changed. Trish will send it out to everyone via
email for reference.
IV. 2022 MEETING SCHEDULE
1st Thursdays at 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm seems to work for everyone, agreement from the group to set this
as the regular meeting schedule.
V. GROUP AGREEMENTS
Trish reviewed group agreements posed at the first meeting:
• Listen to understand; be open to learning and willing to embrace some discomfort in order to
learn
• Consider intent versus impact: take responsibility for what you say and do
Group was asked to take a few minutes to think about the following questions and respond, the
following is
What agreements do you want to create for this group?
• Respect everyone’s ideas, experiences, voices, diversity of perspectives , and boundaries
• Listen to understand
• Include all voices and involve everyone, even when we don’t agree
• Assume best intentions
• Step up and step back – recognize when we need to step up and when we need to step back
• Active participation and preparation
• Keep an open mind
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• Use intentional language but also do not nitpick others language
• Understand Advisory Board role – revisit agreements, purpose, etc., agree to look back
When we are in conflict, how do we manage it as a group?
• Manage in respectful manner – listening and pausing
• Try to not take things personally
• Use ‘I’ statements
• Address conflict sooner rather than later
• Actively bring all of the responses from first question to conflict management
When you are hurt or offended, what group norms do we want?
• Be ok with calling each other out respectfully – could be private chat or to the full group letting
the person the know
• Find ways to express ourselves when we’re hurt
• Allow time and space if needed (creating space for pause button)
• Recognize that people approach things differently
• Take ownership for mistakes
• Understand that might not be able to ‘fix it’
VI. INTRODUCTION TO BYLAWS CREATION / DECISION MAKING PROCESS
Trish reviewed the organizational structure and Executive Board majority rule decision making
process.
Group asked to think about how the Advisory Board wants to make decisions and how
recommendations are shared with the Executive Board. Trish shared three decision making models:
• Consensus – builds in discussion and strives to reach agreement by all
• Majority rule – binary decision, less space to hear reasonable objections
• Consent principle – evolution of consensus and incorporates a range of tolerance as middle
ground, objections are bringing up blind spots, risks to mission/organization
Models are a way of framing the conversation. What are people connecting with, models or creating
our own framework? Group resonating between consensus and consent principle. Benefit of consent
principle that involves discussion and everyone to share thoughts.
Discussion around the challenge of narrowing in the beginning of this process, recognition that we
might want to revisit. Agreement from group to dig deeper into consent and consensus models to use
as a trial and revisit after a few months.
VII. UPDATES / ANNOUNCEMENTS
Minutes were included with the agenda as a draft, these will be included with each agenda and group
will be asked to review and approve each set of minutes.
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VIII. CLOSING
Using the chat members were asked to share one thing th at went well and one thing that felt
challenging tonight.